Apa yang kita harapkan dari pacaran? Kita masih muda - Babel 15tahun.
Okay-_- yang tadi tidak ada hubungannya dengan apa yang akan saya bahas. Maaf-_-
So let me ask you a question. Who are you? What is your purpose in this world? What do you want to do?
Some people may actually say,
"Wtf? I'm adfrgqgwr (thats a name) you mada*senor*"
Well something like that. Well then let me tell you something.
People who doesn't take those words seriously are a....
(sekalian nyindir haters)
tah gua tulis di jidat gede lu itu.
You know why? Cause you don't know what "how to live" is and you don't actually care what "life" is! Am I right? Of course I am cause I'm cool.......................
Okay. Melenceng dulu ya dari topik.
YOLO?!!!!
You only live once? Okay ini emang udah ga "jaman" but I'm still gonna talk about it.
So yes you only live once, it doesn't mean you can just waste your time on doing things that you "can't" do. Like being on drugs and trying "those things" and actually don't care about others. Its like your living..... on your own little world...... like a lost soul.
Anyways back to the topic.
So who are you?
I might be a little sotau if you keep reading, but I sharing berdasarkan ilmu yang telah saya peroleh :)
In our age (13-19) its actually pretty common for us to actually feel like we're a lost soul, don't know what to do, depressed and so on.
And yes I have actually felt like that. It felt so....... gaenak deuh-_- It feels lonely and wanna be alone and lonely:((((((((((((((((
Itu semua adalah tahap penguji kita untuk ke jenjang berikutnya.... (lukiranikah-_-)
So, jika kalian mendapatkan gejala-gejala seperti jerawat di pipi kanan, marah-marah tanpa sebab, merasa semuanya menjauh dan merasa diri kita ga becus atau ga guna, kalian siap siap untuk melakukan hal ini :
1. Listen to Music
I really recomend you to listen to music, apalagi music yang slow and calming like classic music. Jangan musik GALAU DUH GALAU MULU:(((
Thats just gonna ruin you more cause you'll have flashbacks and penyesalan-_- and then you'll just feel very ashamed of yourself :((((
2. Find videos, articles or a book of motivation.
this is actually wajib untuk dilakukan cause you'll have guidance dan memperoleh semangat dan tujuan yang jelas dan alasan untuk hidup :)
3. Plan yourself.
After you have gained motivation, you will feel like you just have been borned again into this world. Itu juga kalau kalian tersentuh hatinya oleh yang nomor 2 wkwkwkwk.
So plan yourself, if you are a nobody then make yourself somebody by planning what you want to be and be doing in the future and how you're gonna reach it.
4. Pray and learn more about your religion.
This is like practically the most and should-do step out of these 4 steps.
Your mind and heart will be more relaxed and your mind will be clearer to the world.
Now maybe because of this your mindset will become different. I don't know like what but its gonna be different, maybe you'll get to think positive, calmer, see that the world is actually a beautiful thing and that life is just not some word or maybe the opposite
Well, tidak bisa disebut menjadi dewasa juga jika sifat belum bisa diubah dan tidak bisa berfikir secara kepala dingin dan logis dan hal-hal lainnya yang bisa disebut "dewasa"
Tapi walaupun belum sepenuhnya menjadi dewasa, kita setidaknya dapat pengalaman dari apa yang kita alami.
Mindset harus selaras dengan sifat.
Dan mindsetnya itu harus diubah, kalau sudah baru sifat dengan sedikit latihan juga akan berubah.
Sotau kan? salah siapa baca ampe akhir?:((((((
Once again sorry for this nonsense, why am I posting this nonsense? Because I want to share some of my knowledge and my very little experience at this age of no experience(?) :))))))))))))) wkwkwks.
Oh well.
Wassalam.
